Ironically the fear of worrying if we will look stupid in front of others can actually be a self-fulfilling prophecy. We are so worried about not making a fool of ourselves in front of others that in fact we end up doing that very same thing we didn’t want to do! Even Richard Branson has worried about how he’d look compared to someone else, and got all embarrassed.
Do you feel your team is missing out on opportunities?
I have seen so many times in team meetings, industry events and sales presentations where there’s been a brilliant opportunity to stand up and promote yourself or your company but the person hasn’t because of the fear of looking stupid. In sales training it can prevent people from asking a question so they may even leave without understanding the information. You can get over this monkey, and once you do – then you can make an independent decision as to whether it’s appropriate or not for you speak up at an event. If it is appropriate (and without those Public Speaking Monkeys muttering away) you will be able to stand on your feet and speak from your heart and eventually find your Inner Speaker as I call it. I spoke about finding your inner speaker at the Summit2Success last year – take a look at the montage of some of my key points.
An excellent speaker
An example of someone in touch with their inner speaker is Obama at his victory speech when he was the president. Take a look at him in action, of course, we don’t need to all be like Obama – just being our true selves on stage is luckily quite good enough!
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